Listen to understand the reality of the speaker - treat it as the only reality. If done right, you should be able to recreate that reality in your own mind. If you can do this the other person will think that you "get" them.
Published on Nov 28, 2020
According to Jean-Paul Sartre, everyone has these two features...
Published on Nov 28, 2020
Pavlovian conditioning can cause humans to unconsciously flinch from even thinking about a serious personal problem they have, we call it an "Ugh Field". The Ugh Field forms a self-shadowing blind spot covering an area desperately in need of optimization, imposing huge costs.
Published on Nov 28, 2020
A person can make themselves happy or miserable regardless of what is actually happening outside - just by changing the contents of consciousness.
Published on Nov 28, 2020