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Guessing Others State

This is a conversation technique where you guess another person's emotional state and story they are telling themselves. You communicate it to them - as a guess on our side.

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Published on Mar 17, 2025

Silence Or Violence

Crucial Conversation can go wrong if ether party goes into silence or violence.

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Published on Mar 17, 2025

Crucial Conversation

A conversation is crucial if it has...

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Published on Mar 17, 2025

Conflict Lag

People tend to avoid conflict - so they put off having a Crucial Conversation. This is not good - people tend to ruminate about a potential conflict. And by the time the conversation actually takes place, its much worse.

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Published on Mar 17, 2025

Strong Link Vs Weak Link Problems

Strong link problems get better by making the best solutions better. Eg. Startups - even if many fail, if the top ones succeeds, the system works.

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Published on Feb 08, 2025

Value Demand Vs Failure Demand

Requirements who's purpose is to create more value. Eg. Print more books so we can sell more of it.

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Published on Nov 26, 2024

Your Brain At Work

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Published on Nov 22, 2024

Effects Of Expectations

Practices like Negative Visualization(in Stoicism) uses expectation control.

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Published on Nov 22, 2024

Scarf Model

SCARF stands for the five key "domains" that influence our behavior in social situations...

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Published on Nov 21, 2024

Manufacturing Consent

Book by Noam Chomsky and Edward Herman. It explores the role of traditional media in shaping public opinion by introducing the concept of the "propaganda model". Large media outlets, despite claims of independence, often serve the interests of powerful elites. Creation of news goes thru these filters to fit to the needs of the elites...

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Published on Nov 21, 2024