Hi there!

I'm Binny and this is my digital garden. That means I publish the notes I make when learning things in this space. I use the Zettelkasten method to make these notes, so most notes will be small and interconnected to other notes. If you want to learn more about this system, check out my book on Zettelkasten!

I use Obsidian to write the notes, and I have created a small tool called 11 Garden that converts the markdown notes to static HTML.

If any of the topics I have a note on is of interest to you, please reach out to me on twitter and say hi. I'm always happy to chat about any of these topics!

If you want to check out a note of something I'm currently(as of Sept 2024) studying about, check out Belief Systems.


Guessing Others State

This is a conversation technique where you guess another person's emotional state and story they are telling themselves. You communicate it to them - as a guess on our side.

Tagged With: #permanent-notes #conversation #conflict #relationship

Published on Mar 17, 2025

Conflict Lag

People tend to avoid conflict - so they put off having a Crucial Conversation. This is not good - people tend to ruminate about a potential conflict. And by the time the conversation actually takes place, its much worse.

Tagged With: #permanent-notes #conversation #conflict #relationship

Published on Mar 17, 2025

Crucial Conversation

A conversation is crucial if it has...

Tagged With: #permanent-notes #conversation #conflict #relationship

Published on Mar 17, 2025

Silence Or Violence

Crucial Conversation can go wrong if ether party goes into silence or violence.

Tagged With: #permanent-notes #conversation #conflict #relationship

Published on Mar 17, 2025

Strong Link Vs Weak Link Problems

Strong link problems get better by making the best solutions better. Eg. Startups - even if many fail, if the top ones succeeds, the system works.

Tagged With: #framework #problem-solving

Published on Feb 08, 2025

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